Do you know a mom who’s too tired, stressed out, or anxious from caring for her newborn to care about herself? We do, and they deserve so much better from their loved ones. That’s why we’ve put together a list of practical gifts for new moms, with the help of real Malaysian mamas. After all, who better to ask than ladies who have experienced the joys and pains of motherhood themselves? Thanks to their insight, our list is chock-full of useful, mom-approved gifts that won’t go to waste. So read on if you’d like to give the best to the supermoms in your life.
Note: The following responses from moms have been edited for brevity and clarity.
Best Gifts For Malaysian New Moms
According to Malaysian mommies, here are 17 of the best gifts you can get for new moms.
1. Cuski Lovey
‘The Cuski lovey is a good gift for new moms. It helps calm my baby down because it can be used to retain mommy’s scent. It’s able to provide me with additional time to rest, especially during the newborn days.’
– Yen Li
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2. Lactation Cookies
‘With lactation cookies, moms can enjoy a sweet treat without feeling too guilty. And when you produce more milk, your body burns more calories while breastfeeding and pumping.’
– Pei San
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Related: 5 Easy And Delicious Lactation Cookie Recipes To Help Boost Your Breast Milk Supply
3. Bio-Oil
‘Bio-Oil is a must. Alhamdulillah I just had my second baby and I don’t have any stretch marks yet. It could be genetic, but I think the oil helped a lot too. I use it from early pregnancy as it helps reduce stretching itchiness and tames stretch marks.’
– Shahirah
4. Postnatal Massage
‘I would have liked a postnatal massage voucher as a gift as all new moms need an urut after delivery. It helped with my blocked ducts. It’s expensive, which makes it a rare gift for new moms. We usually have to arrange for one on our own.’
– Shalini
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5. Sweet Treats
‘For new moms, some treats like chocolates or cakes would be good. Because it’s exhausting and sometimes we don’t even have time to cook. I used to survive on lactation cookies between breakfast and dinner when I was home alone with the baby.’
– Serene
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6. Aroma Diffuser
‘Aroma diffuser is a nice gift idea for new moms. I love when the house smells good. It lifts my mood instantly, and makes me feel happy and calm.’
– Elizebeth
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7. Food Delivery
‘Food delivery is always a good idea. But I’d say it’s better to ask ahead when is a good time to send a meal instead of a surprise because that way moms can plan around it. And the anticipation is a bonus. To help with meals is such an awesome thing, but maybe after the confinement period.’
– Kaitlyn
8. Spa Set
‘Spa sets are helpful gifts for new moms. But in reality, not many of them have the time or will actually take the time to pamper themselves after delivery, which is sad. It’s simple – a good body scrub, some nice-smelling candles, a facial scrub or mask. Having a good time in the shower is a mood lifter for me. You have to take care of yourself because no one else will. It’s a game changer.’
– Shahirah
Our picks:
- BFF LOVE spa gift basket
- Mamonde rose pampering set
- Tanamera postnatal set
- Tropical Herbs postnatal care set
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9. Staycation
‘I just want a staycation at one of those fancy boutique hotels in KL, away from the husband and the kids. It’ll just be great to spend some time relaxing without a worry in the world – even if it’s only for a day or two.’
– Lindy
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10. Breastfeeding-Friendly Kaftan
‘Hands down the best form of pyjamas for new moms – breastfeeding-friendly kaftan! Unzip the zip and you’re good to go.’
– Iman
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11. Massage Machine
‘New mom means long days, sleepless nights, and tiredness. Massage machines for the back or leg give instant relaxation and some me-time, which can help energise and rejuvenate moms for another long and sleepless day.’
– Elizebeth
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Related: 9 Best Massage Chairs In Malaysia To Soothe Your Achy Back
12. Thermal Flask
‘Thermal flasks are great gifts for new moms. They need a good one to remind them to drink more water. It’s always good to keep hydrated, especially when breastfeeding.’
– Shao-Chin
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13. Loungewear
‘I love cute and comfy loungewear because comfort is really king after delivery and you can be in pyjamas all day and not feel so paiseh when visitors come by. Something breastfeeding-friendly would be good.’
– Kaitlyn
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14. Cute Socks And Sarong
‘Some cute socks, or kain batik or sarong with elastic waist will make mummies feel more comfortable and cute during pantang.’
– Erin
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15. Adorable Baby Clothing
‘Lots of beautiful clothes for the baby. New moms are widely influenced by what they see on social media, especially the influencers and celebrities. So they like dressing up with their kids and posting photos on social media.’
– Vishalani
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16. Postpartum Belly Band
‘For me, I think a postpartum belly band will be a great gift for new moms. After delivery, the band will help flatten your tummy and support your uterus.’
– Kiat Yee
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17. Bird’s Nest
‘Some health supplements, like bird’s nest, would make good gifts for new moms. Once you have a baby, you don’t really spend on yourself unless someone gets them for you.’
– Jaime
Our picks:
- BRAND’S bird’s nest with rock sugar
- Jello Nest by Mira Filzah
- Kinohimitsu bird’s nest with red dates and wolfberries
Cheer A Mom On With These Best Gifts For New Moms
Now you can confidently cart out any of these gifts for new moms and be sure that it’ll be properly appreciated and used. Don’t forget to include a heartfelt message and let moms know that they’re doing a great job so far. Or pay them a visit with the present in tow, and help around with the baby and house chores. Little things matter, and moms appreciate all the help and support they can get!
